If you are wondering how you can get back with your ex, the first thing that you need to understand is that this is a very delicate situation. Your feelings may be hurt, and their feelings may be hurt also. It is important that you are careful about what you’re doing in situations like this just in case you damage your relationship even futher.
Here are the considerations that you need understand when it comes to figuring out how to go from a Breakup to a Makeup.
1 – First and foremost, what was it that you did in order to cause the break up? Lovers do not break up completely out of the blue, so there is probably a really good reason behind the action even if you are not immediately aware of what it is. The first step in this process has to be to figure out what went wrong, whether or not it could have been prevented, and how can you can fix it now that you know what it is that you have done.
2 – If the break up with your ex was entirely your fault, then the first thing that you need to do to help rekindle things is to let your ex know that you recognize what happened, you recognize that it was your fault, and that you are sorry for your actions and the unintended consequences.
3 – You should continue to socialize with other people, even though you are trying to court your ex again. Just because you and your ex are not in contact right now, that does not mean that you need to cut yourself off from the rest of the world. You should date someone else, or at least go out and have some fun with your friends. It may even work to your advantage for you to cause some jealousy in your ex partner if you really do want to get them back.
4 – Show your ex that you have moved on, but you also need to show them that you still care about them. This is the most ideal way to eventually get them back. Let them know that you have not completely moved on and that you still have feelings for them. This will make you appear more mature to them, and more desirable as well.
5 – Finally, it is important that you work hard to become friends with your ex again. This will build trust, and will help to make you closer to one another. Afterwards, you should ask them why you broke up in the first place, but be casual about it rather than appearing desperate. They will either admit that it was a mistake that the two of you broke up, or they will let you know that the break up was for the better. Once you have an answer, you can proceed from there.
The EX Recovery System – Part I
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